How to deal with hate child to school .. suffer quite a lot of mothers because of the unwillingness of their children to go to school, making it always lives in moments of insomnia and fear because every mother on earth you want to have her child a better education and to mount the best positions, and this problem almost hitting seven members out of ten, and mother always find the child claims the disease in order to escape from going to school and did not find the mother solution to them is that they force the child to go to school, but this is never a solution, but it is a very serious problem because the child If you went to school level so the school will drop also very possible that the escaped it and this command displays the child to too much risk, then why should I do the mother under these difficult circumstances we are today through this article we will provide some help you through some guidelines that you should follow.
First , you should know the reasons why child hates to go to school and often get rid of the problems that will remind them now.
- Be the surrounding environment in the school, causing the child to some psychological problems either by teachers or by peers
- Violence is likely to have a child is exposed to the kind of violence by teachers and not necessarily that this physical violence can be physical or psychological, as some teachers have ill-treatment where the dependent child is always offended more than one way
- It is possible to have a child some bad friends
- the child dislike to the system and the school routine , which causes him severe boredom
- A child's sense of neglect and lack of attention by teachers and colleagues, and some of the children also feel unloved and unwanted.
- Hatred of the child for some subjects, many children have it very difficult to understand some of the subjects causing a very severe for these materials and also causes frail to go to school for fear of this material hatred.
- And there are some problems and family or parental separation unrest.
Ways of solving the problem of hatred of the child to go to school:
- must always speak the mother with the child to find out the main cause of his hatred for the school and this must be through a simple method
- the mother must continue on a permanent basis with the school administration to follow the rise and decline in the academic level of the child
- the child 's mother things they loved when success in some of the articles that he hates.
- Work effectively Al improving the child 's relationship with teachers
- to try to create an atmosphere of calm and comfort in the house so it does not cause a state of tension and psychological problems for the child affect his studies.
- Attention on making the child slept sufficient number of hours and the agreement with the child in a calm way on a specific date is preferred to sleep even feel that he has the freedom of opinion.
- The organization of the child as the right way, because many mothers are forced child studying for very long hours, and this is something very wrong because this creates a psychological barrier between the child and the particular study year so you must determine the number of hours suitable for study and number suitable for exercise hours and this something very important and a specific number of hours to play does not deprive your child to live a normal life, but the system and arrange it so that there is nothing at the expense of something else.
- If my evil all these instructions and did not work any better than before the baby then you should go to the child psychologist and that is something very necessary.
